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Am with mi men for 7 years now and i love him verry much.He is a wanderfull men and take good care of me. But am missing something and i no its the felling of another women tuch.I hade only 2 experience with women in my life but can't stop whanting more and more each day.I can see my self with a beutiful ladie and i just love that thougt.I dream abouth it,every where i go i find my self to look at women all the time.
I really don't no what wrong with me, here i have a wunderful men and i can't stop thinking abouth being with some one else!I dream to find the perfect ladie to share special moments with her.
Please anny body with comments would help!


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No, you are not crazy, ill, insane, or anything of such ilk. They sat bisexuality runs much more common amoung us than most believe or know. It is said that sometimes our awareness, feeling, sense of being bi does not come out till later in life. So please, stop beating yourself up over it, what you are feeling is normal, is natural, so no, you are not betraying the man in your life. I understand how painful this must be for you, but only you can find the answer, what to do. It takes time, that wonderful thing called time. Be good & kind to yourself, give yourself time. Learn more within yourself, before you judge yourself.


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Thank you Rebekka you are so nice.


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Yes, Sofia. Rebekka is right. I came out as a bisexual sort of last year, but now after having a couple experiences with a woman, my convictions are true. I was married to a man for 14 yrs, but unlike you I wasn't happy...not because I didn't like men...he really got stupid and got on my nerves. I was too patient and not focused on myself... I had no "me" time before we got married...we were too young and inexperienced. I have been divorced since 2005, but late in the marriage and afterward I developed feelings for women. The feelings got stronger last year, and I knew somehow I had to act on it. So I set out to rediscover myself and to understand these emotions. Did a lot of reading books like Girl Meets Girl, The Bisexual's Guide to the Universe, The Lesbian Sex Book. Watched REAL women porn. NEVER BEEN with a woman until this year. I love it. It feels natural. I used to feel guilty, but not anymore. I used to feel scared to approach women, but it is getting easier. I go places where lesbian and bi women hang out now. I don't have a steady relationship, but through trial and error, you eventually can meet someone you like. Question: Have you told your husband yet?


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my boy friend no i like women but not to that extend. I did ask him once if he dint mind if y had a girl friend, i think he din`t like my question.hihihih
but he! i had to try.


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