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i havent been with a women sexually in like in 2 years - Bi Bi Bi Women

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i feel if i do get with a woman i want to be with sexually i wouldnt know what to do . i dont wanna brag but when i was seeing my ex girlfriend i had her climbing the walls but i havent been with any women since then i feel like im falling off my tongue game and ive really fiending for a womans touch and feel and ......hell everything its just im in a relationship with my daughters father i dont want to share the future girl with him wtf do i do??


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hmm... if you have an open relationship than it wouldn't matter you shouldn't have to share (I guess that sounds greedy, but it is your sex life and your body) if the other person can't accept it, than in a sense the are being greedy to because they want to keep you to themselves...*rubs her forehead* I am in an open marriage relationship I am allowd to have gfs and I don't have to share, my female partner has to be willing to share though...before Pat and i even got married I told him straight up, either your with me and accept that I am bi and will want to be with a girl and everyone has their needs...he accepted it...as I struggle more with my health I have told Pat on several occasions that he can go out and find a gf (he's not bi) if he wants as long as he doesn't leave me for her and that she has to love our son as much or as close to as much as we love him (Raven)....I'm not going to be around forever and I want him to be able to fill his needs as well, considering sex is very rarely on the to do list...I can handle the extra pain of it but Pat won't enjoy himself or have sex with me if he thinks that I am in to much pain....*frowns* I think I keep repeating myself and this time I am pretty sure I went off topic...ugh...whatever (hope what I said makes some sense and doesn't come off the wrong way)


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oopps I also haven't been with a girl in a long time, 4ish years now I think, I've dated but it just never really went anywhere...I feel like I would be rusty, but I mean whoever you are with should be patient and understanding, sex differs from person to person, sometimes it takes a while to feel the person out, it never hurts to ask for guidance or to give guidance to your partner, I mean both you you having sex together is....*frowns* its new to both of you, everytimg you have sex with anyone its like having sex for your first time, they wont know right away what buttons to push for them and the same when it comes to them pushing your buttons...you have to feel each other out....*rubs her forehead and wonders if she is making any sense*


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Sierra_Brown
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you both make very good points thanks for illuminating it for me i just dont want to share any future gfs with my boyfriend i love him to death but i need to be with a woman intimatly without him but i really dont think he'll understand but thanks ladies u guys really understand where im coming from or trying to come from lol


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Sierra_Brown
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that sounds good i could use a friend dont have many out here in philly just let me know when ur free daille (say dale) lol


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mmm...why'd Daille's comment get deleted?


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As I believe honesty must exist for any relationship, thus I admit I am a pre-operative Male-To-Female Transsexual, who has successfully, openly, been accepted as & living as a lesbian for 15 years. It has been 5+ years (+ more) since I have had a relationship (there never was any male companion). Largely due to my health, which leaves me incapable of functioning sexually (there is no feeling, I live an asexual life); though having a loving relationship with a woman (woman to woman) is so dearly missed (although never again expected). I do cry over this, but accept what is, is what is (at the present time, with no foreseeable chance in the future). I can still love, be in-love, but there is no one to be so with. Am I lonely, yes, but being a homebody, a hermit, has, does, help carry me through. I expect I will live the rest of my life alone & that I will die alone. After all, life makes no promises, and I would rather live alone than hurt another!


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Hey Sierra
I wandered in this group looking to say exactly what you did. Yeah, I completely feel where you're coming from. I'm not married but I always say that my relationship with my boyfriend is like a marriage. Right now I don't even pay attention to men, besides my boyfriend, but I always think about women. I share your feelings about not wanting to share a woman with your man. But hell, I don't even know how to talk to a girl, really. I mean I know how to be myself but it just feels hard to connect with someone in that way because of my relationship with my boyfriend. But I am trying because I'm totally girl-crazy and I don't know how much more lesbian porn I can watch before I lose my mind.
Thanks for sharing with us


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Adah,
I feel ya girl, I am going through a 2nd divorce, and have a live-in straight boyfriend. He's cool with me being bi, as long as he gets to be involved (1x only). He watches lesbian porn with me, and even gives me the mags i need to help with masturbating. I have not been with a woman for 17 years sexually, because I (until last weekend) couldn't let her go (she was killed). She was destroying me and any chance of a real relationship with anyone! I make comments infront of my boyfriend like dang she's hot! He gets upset, and says please remeber to consider how I feel when you say that stuff. I even told him one night, I really need a woman. A big part of this has to do with the fact that noone (not even my 1st husband, who I cheated on with her) knows that I'm bi. My boyfriend, and a few select friends do now, but that's it.
Hang in there girls, it will happen when it's meant to happen.


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