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ive always been a tomboy growing up, but as i hit my teen years, i worked so hard to b girly and make ppl like me, now im comfortable wit myself, and the older i get, the more i realize im not rlly a girly girl at all and i'd LOVE to jus cut my hair short, dress like dani campbell and be "the man" of the relatioship, but im afraid if i do this my girl will stop being attracted to me. but shes never been wit a guy bfore and shes gettin more girly as we get older, so mayb this change will b good? she might like it? im already in control as it is if u kno wut im talkn bout ;-] but i want to b that girl that girls look at and say damn! she cud b my man. idc for labels, but any "manly" girls out there ever used to be girly? was it hard to change?


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ive never been "girly" but i do find myself questioning what to wear... cuz some days i dress girlier than others.. and on those other days.. im really kinda butch... and i dont really know if id wanna be the man or the woman.. i think id like to find someone thats kinda like me.. where neither of us are "the man" were just us together...


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Courtney y don't u sit ur girl down talk to her about what u want to do and then go from there if she likes the idea then go for it if not try to come to some kind of compromise. I had to do that with my mom after i came out. the rule is I can dress how I want I can look at who I want but I can only tell my friends that I'm a lesbian.


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I've never been really girlie, but once and a while i enjoy dressing up. I typically go more of a business professional or corp casual. Pinstripe pants and a simple top, I hate skirts. I think that as long as you dress yourself in things that 1) Fit you properly 2) Make you feel comfortable 3) Make you feel attractive, then you can't really lose no matter what STYLE that falls into.

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i have the same probably kind of..id live to just "be the man" myself. I also think it would be sooo much easier to attract other females that way. I also think it would disrupt other parts of my life tho. :/


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So just dress to fit ur personality. Wear what makes u comfortable about urself. Cause if u do anything but that then ur not really being urself and people wont see u for who u r.


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