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Sue_Harwood
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do you have any kids. does your bf/husbands know your bi?


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April_Caddell
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I have 3 children and my husband does know im bi but he doesnt like it!!! It doesnt matter though cause we are finally getting a divorce lol!!!!


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Kat_Queen
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Hi April, I am in the same situation for the most part. I just came out to my husband and he is having a hard time with it. He is intreagued but is terrified that I will leave him for another woman. It is very hard but we are trying to work through it. I just keep playin with him telling him all the things we could do with another woman. It has actually made it a little easier. We have been closer these last few days than we have been since we had our kids. He just wants to keep it fantacy though and I guess I have to respect that even though a part of me don't want to. If we are going to keep our marraige then we will have to have an open communication line. I tell him that I am very curious and I think one day he may come around.The best of luck with you hun!


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Sue_Harwood
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it is hard for men to understand. i tend to find men cant tel the difference between a fetish and actually loving someone. when you tell a man you are bi all they think about is the sex not the fact you can be in love with a woman or a man.

i have 1 little boy. and im lucky to have an understanding partner. although i havent been with anyone else since we have been together in 5 years,it doesnt stop me having naughty thoughts ol


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LENE_HOWARD
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Hey. My ex used to think that I would cheat on him just because I like women. He didnt understand that I believe cheating is cheating. My boyfriend now thinks its great! That women should be together all the time. I havent been with a woman since weve been together but I am looking.


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Jessica_Dunahoo
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i can definitly relate, im in an open relationship as well with a man and also looking for a gf, would love to chat!!


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Katie_Bernard
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I'm also in the same boat! My fiance is completely supportive, and encourages me to be myself, including being with women. He says whatever makes me happy, makes me happy. In our eyes, as long as there are no lies, and everyone is aware of the situation and it okay with it.... then there's nothing wrong with it! Me not having to deny a part of me, in my opinion, definitely makes our relationship stronger and more healthy. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to find a certain special female someone willing to accept the situation.


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Vikki_Strong
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hey katie i was kinda in the same situation i was with an ex who totally suported me we was together for years i had fun with girls but nothin more, we broke up but iv always been on the gay scene, i go gay clubs and bar but iv never actually had a realationship with a girl,as much as i love the idea morwe then bein with a man its just not happened x


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Heather_Haigh
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I had a husband who totally didnt understand, and i have four kids, but we divorced 3 1/2 years ago, and have been with a woman for the last two and a half years...suprisingly my ex is fine with it and says as long as im happy and the kids are happy he has no reason to complain...now why couldnt he have been that understanding before we split up HA


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Windi_McDaniel
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I find it amazing, being a bi woman with kids myself, that relationships with women are being brought down to the level of sex partner only. Some of you seem bi curious, not bisexual. Furthermore, to those who are telling their husbands 'it's ok honey, think of the fun we could have," are completely dillusional! Having a relationship with a woman will make your husband jealous and will ruin your marriage! Guys think it's cool because they think with their dicks...at first, but when the relationship between his wife and the other girl turns into something more than sex, there in lies the problem. If you argue that she would be just a sex partner, you are mistaken. Women form bonds with their sex partners, no matter male or female. Eventually that is what will happen, and your husband will be left in the cold, and you and he both will know it. Trust me, i'm giving you good advice. Those of us who know the power of loving another female, i'm sure, can understand the gist of what i'm saying. I feel offended that some of you simply think that you can have meaningless idle sex with your husband and some random girl and call yourself bisexual. You give us a bad name, and frankly it sucks. you are taking value away from my relationships, connections and deep emotions.


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Nancy_Osmond
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u no what i am bi n i was with a guy n a girl at the same time n what ya said is true guys get jelous easly and well that didnt really work out n i stuck with the girl. i found that us girls understand more. i th
ake what ya said to heart cuz i went throw kinda the same thing.


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i agree with windi i hate that men dont take another women as a threat its demeanin my ex husband would never have been ok with an open relationship regardless of gendar. Because he took the fact that i love women seriously as for the i sleep with women but want relationships with men its insulting to women. i ve had lesbians run a mile as soon as i say BI because they assume we are all like that not to mention having someone come on to you then decide youre not relationship material because of your gendar takes the piss.


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Buffy_Ballard
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some mebn depending on their generation, find that beoing with another woman is wrong. how ever they will watch lesbian porn with their wives.... they say we are hard to understand!!! hipocryts!!!! thye man i am with refuses a 3-some even though i think they are the best things ever!!!! he feels that his love shold be enough for me but knowing i love a womans touch more than a mans touch he allows me to find a playmate. i havent had the heart to look for another play mate since i have been woth hm. he is a genuine man and wouldnt want to harm the relationship! first one to actually go right! i think its the age difference. he is older and the respect levle is much higher than any woman/man i have ever been with. i cheris our love but greatly miss the touch of a woman. but could not be with another woman unless he was involved too. so i am stuck in limbo with this one!!! any ideas??? am i wrong to feel this way?


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