Kelsey_Jane_Blackwell-Klenke Posted January 3, 2010 Hey I am Kelsey Jane, I am 17, bisexual, and just came out of the closet in 2009....August 15th to be exact.....so my mama is perfectly okay with the fact that I like girls and guys, but my daddy is a different story.........I haven't really told my dad yet because he freaked when my friend Dixie and I made up my saying "when life gives you lemons...make lesbian-ade" and then when my mama told him that she thought I might be gay he laughed at her and said "well if she is, at least she can't get knocked up with a chick".....and he rags on the gay community all the time...and not in the harmless little joking around way like my friends do, but in the way that he will say things about ppl being lesbian/bisexual that really makes me scared to tell him. I really want him to know, because I don't want this to ruin our family if I do something like fall for a girl and marry that girl one day. I want him to be okay with the idea that someday he is gonna have to walk me down the isle and give me away...and I want him to be okay with the fact that it might be a woman waiting at the end to recieve me. I just want my daddy to know who I am and not just the tomboy, who loves animals, art, music, automotives, and is a people person.....but the bisexual daughter that loves all of that....the daughter he could have the chance to check out girls with when we go to a nascar race together. How can/do you tell the BIGGEST homophobe in your entire world that you are lesbian/bisexual?????? Please someone, anyone HELP ME!!!!!!!