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Coffee……………………………………
Wake up and smell it. Earlier today I was reading a post from a young man that proceeded to group all of the gay community on this site and probably the outside gay community not on this site as well into a “Hot to Trot only looking for Faces (sex) and not for the Real Gay Man/Woman” group, and to also label us as “old dogs.” Well for the most part this site is, as I understand it, a site that is community driven, a bank of community information and to connect up with one another and or to redirect oneself to find the information that one may be looking for. Granted there is a area that is designed for connections but there is also an area that is for those of us that like to talk about jacking off and eating cum as well as many other sorted topics. So for anyone to be on this site and to assume that all of us are out to be sexual predators is a bit how shall it be put…….judgmental. Shallow is a bit coarse.
I myself find being part of a group or community is not a bad thing and most of us do like to be part of a group or community, however not to be labeled. I am part many communities and groups, for instance The Aids Foundation of San Francisco, The Aids Emergency Fund of San Francisco, Effort for Aids in St. Louis, St. Mary’s Hospital of San Francisco, Act-Up OKC, Act-Up NYC, Act-Up San Francisco and The Most Holy Redeemer Catholic Church in the Castro in San Francisco, the Catholic Faith, The Dutch Society, German culture, Irish culture, on and on and on. However, I am not labeled in any of those groups or communities as any one thing. I am just as we all are diversified and not labeled this or that.
However, not withstanding, we are all part of a very large group and community, that I am sure to most of you that might be reading this are well aware of, but for those that seem to judge others let’s put it to a test: Can one guess what that large group or community is………………………………………………………………………………
Well…………………………………..Allow me to give you a hint-------The Human Race. Now we are all a part of this group which at times even I would like to detach myself from it simply because I find it appalling that we as humans must start and fight wars, kill one another, shoot with guns one another, use baseball bats on one another, harm animals, gross sex acts on children and yes even call their fellow members “Old Dogs”.
Well, if you cannot lie with the big “DOGS” then you need to get off of the front porch. I am serious here, just who do these “KIDS” think that they are. If it were not for us “Old Dogs” there would be no forum for them to speak openly about “others just looking for faces (sex), and complaining about it, If it were not for us “Old Dogs” there would be no ability at all to say anything about being gay, having a gay parade, much less having the feeling of safety walking down the street in a pink tutu without being shot or having the crap beat out of him.
So your judging is a bit pretentious and I am totally offended by it and furthermore I may do just as you had said you were going to do and remove myself from this site, reason being because of closed minded youngsters or whippersnappers such as one ’s self. I am amazed that anyone would have the balls to ever tell anyone that they were too old to do anything. How dare anyone presume to tell another person. Just remember that one day you will my friend be in that same situation, the same shoes and will be hearing just exactly what I am talking about. I find it a personal affront for anyone to presume that I or anyone else is too old.

My question is: Too old for what? Any suggestions, well I bet I can beat every one of them.

I am sorry but I have fought for freedom of speech, and I welcome it gladly, however when you infringe on the rights of those around you to grow old or to say what is on their mind, who are you? Because you have just done the same thing that they have. You or we are no better than the next person, even though there are those that do think that they are. Well they will have to answer for that later when their time comes. Stop or leave, if you will find fault in what people put out in front of you. If someone says you are sexy, say thank you and move on if it offends you, if someone says “Hey I could eat you up” you could also say f**k off and delete that contact. But do not include me or everyone else randomly into a group of people, and I think I speak for a lot of people here, that you think are one way or another. And just for the asking what group or community are you related to or in may we assume that you are lecherous and an “Old Dog” even though your photo or “Avatar” shows differently. Or are you afraid to openly speak and say what or who or in this or that group you are in. Chicken I say, and that envelops quite a lot of humans in fact everyone is a chicken. Can you imagine the flack I am or can or could or will receive from that statement so Grow up, Get a Grip and get out into the world take your lap top with your record what the heck is going on, learn about the world and its inhabitants especially the “GAY Old Dogs” and find out that we are not all that way. PUKE that is what I say, if you have a one sided view of your peers you do not have the experience to say such things, but then maybe you do and I just do not know this because I do not know you. I mean really do you think that everyone that drinks coffee puts cream and sugar in it, those of us that eat cereal in the morning, do we all put fruit on our cereal, do we all use honey, do we even eat cereal.
So this is very simple I mean just look at the diversity of the world not one place is exactly the same as the other, not one person is exactly the same as the other. So how can one presume to group all humans that are male and gay or even female and gay or even non humans that are not male or female or gay and call us all “Old Dogs?”
I do not get what is going on when I am told “I am too old”. Huh? Did I do something wrong, did I say something that I should have not said, did I not say the right combination of words, did I not cross my t’s or dot my I’s, I am confused but then I have been labeled as an “Old Dog” only looking for face, and lecherous because I want more face than love, tenderness, care, kindness, trust, faith. No I am just an “Old Dog” lecherous and wanting nothing but Face (S E X).

Old Dog.

James H. Wilson or Jimmy woof woof


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Well said. This is from one "Old Dog" to another.


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First how many ways do I have to say this: I'M THE ONE THAT COIN THE OLD DOG!!Second: I'm a part of a few things in the gay community. Which I don't feel I need to name. I may not be as old as you but I'm no spring chicken. I've taken part of my share of things back in the day and was around when fag bashing was the norm. I can speak first hand how the gay community judges by age, looks, and just our body. And true it's not just our people. I'm proud of being a old bitch. And when I said it I wasn't referring to age. You made it an age thing. Go back and read the rest of what I wrote and maybe your get off your soap box. I know for a fact that this site only deals with looks. Not judging stating a fact. Hell, I and the millions like me both gay and straight know that it's a small window for my kind and it's well known. I've talk to Eugene and kiddie has a point. And you too have your point, but honey accept the truth if he and I were in a room together where would the line start? Again, I use that team and I stand by it. And thinks for calling this old bitch a kid


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No, no, no you got that all wrong it has absolutely nothing to do with age, per se. Yes it does, but the main crux of the thing is the "looking for Faces ie sex and not just looking for the person behind the face or the person that is inside.
I matters not who coined what, take no offense. I give credit where credit is due thank you, but to judge is not an option, Before one can judge one must be the creator. I know. I know, oh ye without sin cast the first stone, now I am going all religious on here I am just saying that I too have judged, but I try to do my best to not judge and trust you me I have gotten hurt but not listening to my judgmental mind. However, that being said, age well I just came out of a spring/ fall relationship, me being the spring, I lost my partner to dementia and neuropathy so when it comes to age it really should not matter what matters is where your heart wants to take you.
I appreciate your words and I do not mean to offend at all, I just have a hard time when I am told that I am too old..........just what does that mean? We are all old for something, so if I am too old to lets say to watch kids in a playground playing, then what "Too old" is Kiddie for.

Again I mean no offense. Bless ya.

Jimmy


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Ok, I'm sorry I state all this. But some of you guys started this by hitting on me. None you want to get to know the real person just the photo. I get that a lot and should have known it won't be any different. I want y'all to get off Mark's case he's a pretty good person it seems to me and we as the human race need to stop seeing the out but the heart. I did that's why I made him my friend. And Mark stop putting yourself down. Too me your real cute


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I think everyone is letting a minor issue turn into major drama. I mean, you join a site like this to meet people, then hate being bothered with compliments? If you hate being hit on for being handsome, why post a pic showing chest? I am 43 and I think I look damn good. I know I am not a "hunk" like some here, but its all attitude. If I get complimented, I say thanks and move on. If someone doesn't like me, fine. You may have your opinion, and I will choose to ignore it. Why turn a fun site into a bitch-slap fest?


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Please Scott go and read what I just posted. I should have the right to post any picture I want without someone telling me they love me without knowing me. What's next we going to tell women to stop wearing things that could get them in trouble. Transgenders to stop wear men or woman clothes stop being pick on. My point is get to know the person


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Well, ya know what, I have just bought my Ticket and that ticket is a one way out of here. Is any one hitting up on me Fuck no and so my gorgeous get a freeking grip. You ARE pretty ok is that what you want. There I affirmed your prettiness and do not discount all of OLD DOGS because your beauty is only skin deep and that skin can be ripped off of your body by some pretty ugly rednecks. So go look at your self in the mirror and I will say good bye and leave all of you beautiful people to take care of the kid. Good by I like the porn sites better at least they know and like to be drooled over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


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so that guy tells me to read his message, then leaves. The coward's way out. Another example of people wanting to start drama, but not able to handle it. and for the record, I did research and found that the pic of "him" was actually in another gay site. It was a model. So, he lied. He left. So, bye, bye, liar!


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Scott, you telling me he made it all you? It was a catfish type thing? Any who what made you want too look him up? Plus what if it was a real person I mean really him? So, what was the picture fake or the name or both. Do you know his real name?


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I do not know his real name, but the first clue was how he didn't want praise for his appearance, yet "his" pic was a guy showing chest. If he was so reserved about his appearance, why didn't he clip it to show only face? Or, leave it blank? SImple. He wanted to be seen! I didn't have any issues with him, until he tried to smear my image and not prepare for me to stand up for myself.


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