Deleted Member Posted March 18, 2014 What's up with the men in the gay community? Why do they need someone to carry them. Always asking for a hand out. Needing someone to carry them asking for money or needing a place to stay until the next sucker comes alone. I understand some of y'all may be lonely enough to pay for the dick or for love but that's not me. I don't take care of grown folks and a man, oh hell naw. Plus, I'm a lady and live by old fashion rules and live like a woman and believe the man such take the lead.