Ross_Edwards Posted July 7, 2013 What should I do ? Me and my bf have been with each other for 3 and a bit years. but have been on & off with each other since the start off the year. but 2 months ago we both decide it would be best 2 split up but stay pals which we did. But in the in the last month i have hit some real bad times and needed help. now as we both still care for each other and we would do anything 2 help each other when needed he offer 2 help me. now this involved me staying at his flat for a while till i got myself back on my feet. but within this time there was a few nights we did the wrong thing and slept together to which we both said should not have happened. but i have came 2 realise how much i still love him and want him back. so 1 night i told him how i felt and he said he does still love me and wants us 2 get back together but first i need 2 sort out everything in my life and get things back on track before he would think of getting back with me. which i said yes i understand. but the other thing is since we split up he has kind of been seeing this other guy that he used 2 see every now and then before he meant me but that guy already had a bf at the time. but now the guy is free and i feel that my ex is just waiting 2 see what happens with the other guy before making up his mind about me. i just feel like i am 2nd best right now and i don't really know what i should do. i really love this guy 2 bits. plz someone help me.