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DRUNK? Before The First Date? - Gay Guys! <3

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I met this guy online. We work in the same organization. We were supposed to go out on a "first" date to night as friends. Now he tells me he's drunk and can't come. Mind you that this guy has been trying to get a date with me or for me to even talk to him for the longest time now! He still wants to go down to Nashville with me though. I don't think so! Do you think I'm over reacting on this?


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I don't think you are. Either this guy cannot handle his liquor, or he has a drinking problem. You have to ask yourself if you want a drinking problem in your life, because the alcohol will take over.


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Tristram_Goncalves
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No, he appears to have a substance use problem, you don't want that in your life.


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David I think you are being very smart--even giving him the benefit of a doubt and saying he was trying to get up 'courage' or 'nerve' to meet you, it is still a red flag


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JR1
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Walk Away. obviously his data with you was not his priority. Also trust me maybe he drinks a lot and has a problem and maybe he dosent but the last thing you want to do is get involved with someone who drinks like that Beenn there done that and its not pretty


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We may all be jumping to the wrong conclusion about his drinking BUT we are right about that you are not overreacting to the whole thing--just tell him nicely you would rather not go to Nashville with him.


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Keith_Imeson
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just make a date locally first and see where it goes from there


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Sen_Ll
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i think you should first make this date happen, meet the guy then see what is upnext.


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Michael_Wolfe
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Dave My lover and I have been together for 26 years now and he drinks every night at home..so don't hold that against him..He might of had a bad day or was neverous about the date.. Give him a chance...You never know what might come out of it..


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