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im really looking for someone to love someone nice funny but isnt a total pushover just a lil bit of a pushover ahah someone how i have hug and talk to on the phone all night someone who when they get all horned up will send me pics and talk dirty to me someone CUTE! someone REAL! :/ thats all i want


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Paul_Whalley_48096
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Sorry to say but HOW SHALLOW


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how??? i want someone caring and loving and cute im not saying that they need to be super hot or anything but i just dont want someone alot older and creep thats all sorry if i didnt clear that up but that really isnt all that shallow as you think.... so sorry but HOW RUDE


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Tach_Chew_We
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sounds to me like you want a cyber buddy not a person of real time, and in a way it dose make you sound shallow love comes from the hart and it sounds like all you want is sex


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Taylor_Bowman
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no he dont hes stating wat hes really looking for dont worry blake theres bound to be someone like that so keep searching! >w


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how does it sound like all i want is sex? i said someone to cuddle with thats not sex!? and to talk on the phone with and txt and just be there for me and talk to me yeah again thats not sex.... soo yeah


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William_Alexander_Morvant
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i dont think your shallow at all.. that is pretty much wat im looking for also


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Paul_Whalley_48096
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If you want to have long chats on the phone with quote (horny guys) who will send you dirty pics I am sure you can find gay sites where you can have cam sex and also talk to the person as you probably know you can take pics of a cam session How can you hug and cuddle over a phone as you state I have to agree with Tachuwe If you need sexual gratification there are as you know plenty of Gay porn sites and they are FREE


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Well I understand where you are coming from. You want someone you are attracted to and you seem to be a person who expresses himself sexually and loves to do so through pictures or texts, and you seem to want someone that shares that same trait, but you want that to be reserved for you and only you and not for all the world or others to see. I too would love someone with everything you have described and the whole pics thing isnt a must, its just an added little plus.


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This everything its heart desires......^^


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Aaron_Lee_53083
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but ya same things as want i wan.....but ppl telling me tat is impossible to find dunno y....to me jux let time decide it....hehehe....


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Tach_Chew_We
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@aaron nothings impossiable as long as you belive iam shure you will find what your looking for


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to find "love" is not really impossible, but to last long is nearly impossible. When time goes by, environment change, feeling change, people change...or just to change for the sake of change w/out reason. Moreover, it is damn easy for homo couple to break out, as there it is not marriage / kid issue. Easy come, easy go.


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Aaron_Lee_53083
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to....me.....to be as a happiest lover must be able to understand each other.....like for who u hav choose to be with....learn about each other....does mean need something like marriage or kids to guarantee or tie the relationship....because in today world even have marriage or kids ppl also can still divorce...therefore love your partner as much as you can....if you love that mean you are loved.....no one know wat will happen tomorrow....


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i know and understand and hav done all u have mentioned before.
But if ur partner tell u: be ur self, no need to do anything or change anything for me, or he will tell u: if u love me, let me go. Immediately, u bcome wordless, or in mandarin "wu nai".
One thing funny is, every one complain, hard to find love bla bla, yet, those ppl who r complaining also cannot b a couple.
Meaning, before we say the others, we hav to look at our self first. Ppl who say he appreciate love and he know love, but does he really do so?
And, Not every one like your love, not everyone like the way you love, not every one like to love like the way you love him.
Dun talk abt love, just talk abt fren. Not every one like your/my frenship, not every one like the way you/I make fren, not every one like the way his fren/I treat him.
Your persistance, believe and hard work does not bring u (or me) anything.
Tats the fact, Im not complaining, just hav to accept(although it might be sad)....
Recently, I wish to make fren wit a guy, but i dun think it is feasible, altoh he told me we r fren, i cant feel it at all. If i try too hard, its a pressure to him. If i dun try it enough, sure it just end up nothing just like another cyber fren who will disappear after some time. So, i rather give up, and wish him happy. I really hope he can be happy as ...funny ...i like him...haha...i dun even met him before.

Ah...time to sleep....time to release and forget.



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one thing I find on these chats is the appalling spelling and writing code, sorry Darren could not understand a word you said. If you are saying you can't trust anyone then that is true, especially in the gay world, Finding a true friend let alone a lover in the gay world is transient, here today gone tomorrow. We are sexually passive/versatile Bi, fem/butch not to mention all the fetish what do you like crap, and what comes first sexual attraction, well how long does that last before it's move on to someone else because there bored. There are guys on this and other sites who have partners, yet look for "Fun" with another guy, why? because gay men get easily sexualy bored with having sex with the same person. being gay is all about sex, and who to fancy next, and the minute there is any sign of commitment there off, and friendships, what's the point of knowing someone you don't fancy. Being gay is something you have to put up with and pretend is ok, no it's not, its bloody awfull and lonely. At least in the Hetro world their life is Man/Woman and men have mates. Gays don't have mates they meet down the pub and play darts with. Darren we all dream about what we want, some guys get it some don't, I never will because I know what I want, and its not out there, I hope you one day you find it.


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Aaron_Lee_53083
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sometimes i think everyone have been destined to be with a person....jux the matters of time for it to show up in your life....sometimes this person hav pass your life but we are pushing so hard to find some ideal person until we cant see him....please sometimes we must feel free in the heart to enable us to accept him.....everyone is special in something tat not only in the sexual life....when you found it in him you will never feel bored with him....every human specialty are to be a pair.....but it must match to be perfect......dun giv up.....as i always ask god to give me love & happiness, but god say no. he said he will bless me everyday of my life, but happiness & love is up to me....so think about it what is your main purpose in your life and go for it....thr is never too late..........some ppl cant find it is also because he cany feel enough of what he have.....until he lost it....then he knows how much in his life he ever have.........for couple pls feel grantful of what u have now and stop complaining......always remember dun compare your love & life....comparing always kills u in the end......


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Daniel, u dun get wat Darren put is bcos he was trying to imply something to Aaron, something happened between them i guess...haha.
Good english does not mean giving good point, its probably just all the flower languages tat bring no clear meaning but just ambiguous or unrealistic believe.

Such as:
1) sometimes i think everyone have been destined to be with a person..


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Aaron_Lee_53083
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for everyone....i noe....here today......i cant teach and learn from you all anymore....i feel jux out of a dream i became a bad bad guy to this my precious friend mr darren which i oni have a chance to write to him for two sentence.....of msg.....today i have become a guy which said as a bad guy....i really dunno wat happen to him if anyone know darren send my regards.....to him....i m not a guys u think of.....sorry if i ever hurt you all.....


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Aaron you hurt no one but yourself, we live in a selfish world, europeans may be different in fact they are, we British are reserved and different in attitude.
We as Gay men sometimes go for someone we like, and try very hard to keep someone who is not interested, and it can be nasty when someone is not interested, you just have to let go. someone has just recently hurt me, by swearing undying love for three weeks up to the point when he asked for money.


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Aaron_Lee_53083
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OMG once i heard this it makes me so angry which i hope them never exist in gays world.....they jux only makes gays life look so bad n ugly......next time be more careful....which we sometimes can give them a test trough chat....shopping see what are their reaction....because i think when the person love each other will not only depend on one person only.....jux maybe during some occasion...hopefully wat my idea is right.....hihihi....


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huuu....some one is keep writing here to gain more exposure....yet he said he has minimum time in net to the others...hahaha


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"Someone" said: i feel jux out of a dream i became a bad bad guy to this my precious friend mr darren which i oni have a chance to write to him for two sentence..

Thats a lame excuses, this "someone" has been here all this days to write so much of things, yet only has "chance" to write 2 sentence to his precious fren....hahaha...
This "someone" is here trying to be nice guy again and again.
And this "someone" is a asian boi who has preference to white guys but he never admit....hahaha


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