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Reese_Luciano
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I love to read and lately I have been reading erotica at night through this place called nifty.org does anyone else read erotica? And if you do, where do you read from? And if you don't read erotica do you read online at all? I read from Wordpress often. Anyone else?


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Devin_Kuntz
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I read from literotica.com a lot, There is usually a lot to choose from


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I gave up erotica a long time ago! I don't read 'online' per se except some blogs and newspapers when it comes to stories, like the one Jack wrote about Snyder White I will print it out and read it--when I read 'writing' material I prefer to hold it in my hands.


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Tristram_Goncalves
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I have some hot scenes in some of the stories I have written. I have alot of experience and a dirty mind so I don't need to read erotica. Been there, done that, and never got the clap!


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Reese_Luciano
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@Tristram why you say it like there is something wrong with reading erotica? I would like to believe that is not how you meant for it to come out. As far as writing goes though, I write too, I just never publish my work. I have written erotica before but I usually do not write erotica. I usually write short stories. Lol dirty mind! Maybe you do! I guess I just don't have a dirty mind like yours. I like to read my erotica at night and go with it. I like to read regular short stories though too from Wordpress. I'm into that reading though. That's just a part of my style.


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Tristram_Goncalves
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@Reese, sono spiacente, never meant that there was anything wrong with reading it. I just have lots of practical experience to call upon, don't need to read erotica any more. Still like dirty movies, tho.


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Reese_Luciano
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It's okay my friend, I didn't think you meant it in a bad way, but I didn't want anyone else to misunderstand that might read this. I have no doubt that you have an arsenal of experience, and that experience would most likely be my erotica too if I were in your position. And some day I probably will be that way too, I envy you in a way. Dirty movies are fun to watch, gay porn is awesome.


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Reese I never liked/watched porn--I wanted to be in it not watch it!!! Never did a thing for me.
My friend Allen realized his dream of being in a porno film last year--he was asked to be in another one but turned them down--he did it once, had fun and that was enough!


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Tristram_Goncalves
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@Reese, the last time I read erotica I was 15, walked into Rexall Drugs and bought a copy of The Happy Hooker, at 15 I easily passed as 21 cuz I was tall and looked like a man already. Read it aloud to friends and siblings in our fort, an abandoned cranberry shed full of old scoops. It inspired my second boyfriend ever to have sex with me, for the next 5 and 1/2 years. I love dirty movies, they remind me of some of my fondest adventures in being naughty!


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Reese_Luciano
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@martin that is interesting to be in porn. I wouldn't personally want to at this point in my life, but to watch it being filmed I would do.

@Tristram that is very interesting that it holds such memorable value for you, that's great 15 and second boyfriend? Wow that's so young, I'm my age and have no history of boyfriends? It sounds bad for me when I say it like that... LOL Anyways that's cool that dirty movies have that effect for you though. An old cranberry shed though? Cute, very cute!


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Porn is very blah compared to the real thing!!!! LOL


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Reese_Luciano
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It probably is, but I wouldn't know yet :/


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Tristram_Goncalves
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@Reese I had my first male-male relationship at 14, six months of bliss at the hands of a 17 yr old who looked just like Kurt Russell, he was our age then. I was 12 when I lost my virginity to a girl, at 17 I was a father.


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Reese don't be in a rush to find out! I came out in the 1940s and in spite of what you may hear it was a very special secret society in NYC--that's why I suggested you read George Chauncey's book.
It seems most--not all--gays go through a 'whorish' period LOL


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Reese_Luciano
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@Martin how could I not feel a sense of urgency? I'm 25! I don't know anything about a whorish period though, I suppose I do now.


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What's the urgency? Just to have sex? Or to find someone you want to have sex with? Is it because you feel if you don't find someone today you will be alone?

Reese,
As far as having sex goes there isn't a gay man who can't have it when he wants to--as far as being alone goes there can be a lot ways worse to spend your life and in some cases no way better.

As far as the whorish part goes I said most, not all, go through it but I didn't say what age--my friend Allen came out when he was in his 60s and went through the bed hopping period in his late 60s-early 70s.

Reese relax--there is an old axiom--the harder you look for something the less chance you will find it.


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Reese_Luciano
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As far as the urgency goes, I do want to have sex, but I want to have the best possible experience for my first time. From what I am told I would have to choose carefully who I want that to be and that I get the full experience and not just a quick fuck as some other's have said.

I do worry about being alone, but only in the sense that I want my chance for happiness with what I have envisioned. Tht isn't to say that I will find that now or even in a few years, I do want to experience though to have a better understanding for myself. A part of me feels that I have missed out on some things because I joined the party late so to speak, but I don't know how true that is. I really just want to be able to experience things at my age with people my age just so I know that I have done it. That doesn't have to be sex, but eventually it will be.


As far as getting it anytime I wanted, I don't know anything about that.


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Reese I really do appreciate your openness!
There is no guarantee that the first time you will have sex will be what you want it to be--sometimes it may take time--most people are very nervous the first time and build it up so big in their head that the actual experience has to be disappointing--if not too quick!!!
"..because I joined the party late " There are many, many that have come to the party 'late', such as my friend Allen but that doesn't mean it was too late in his life--it happened when it happened..
Between bars, baths, back rooms, the Internet, gay sites--just to name a few--gays can have sex anytime they want--now I, me, myself do believe in promiscuity--I don't feel that as a gay man I have to follow the rules that nongays have set for me and it is MY experience has been that gay men, unlike their nongay counterparts, are promiscuous. None of that means you have to be, and I am sure I will hear from those who claim to be faithful but that subject is for another discussion.

May I ask what you feel is holding you back? Is it looking for THE right one??


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Tristram_Goncalves
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@ Reese, hold out for a guy who makes you feel comfortable.


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Kimani_K._Roebuck_Sakho
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I read mine from gaydemon.com


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Reese_Luciano
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@Tristram I most certainly will.

@Martin I honestly would be one of those people that builds it up to be so big and then gets super nervous and shoots before anything happens. In that event, I'm sure whomever I am with would not hold it against me if I did, and just try again with me.

As for others coming to the party late I don't know anything about it, but I makes me feel more comfortable to know that it doesn't really matter when you join.

I don't know half of the things you listed. I feel really dumb for saying it in the open, but I have the mentality that if I don't know then someone else doesn't either. I mean I know about bars, but I always thought bath houses and back rooms were just something that you see on tv or in movies. As for what they are, I would imagine it's exactly what google says it is, but if you have something to add then by all means.

What holds me back? Many things. Namely that I want to find the right person for one. But my inexperience is a big obstacle for me, I feel as though I have no idea what I am doing. Like I don't know how to conduct myself in many settings. I feel that if I had a gay friend that I could go out with or do something with I would feel better. One of my concerns is appearing to be an easy target and the something horrible happening. Much the same way when I can tell a newbie in sports I feel that my own newness would show as well.

I have been to clubs and bars and strip clubs and the like, I just have never been to a gay club etc. There are other things that come into play of course, I just don't feel comfortable saying it where all can see. It comes to this really, I want to get out and work my way up to being comfortable and make friends first before anything else and then go from there. My question to myself though is do I really feel that a bar, club, bath place etc is where I want to meet a man? I don't know how to answer that yet. So, that is really where I am with it.

Anyone is free to comment with opinions and such


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Reese, again this is just me---I was going to the baths in NYC during my teen years--it was all sex and a lot of fun for me. Is there a gay center anywhere near you? I stood outside a gay bar for 3 hours before I got the nerve to walk in (this was in 1952)--finally got the nerve, walked in, ordered a frozen daiquiri and got some strange looks--it was a so called 'butch' bar and everyone was drinking beer---I went to bars for the next 30 years--that''s where the back rooms were. I know it is a different world today then when I was 25 but in some ways it is still the same--it would be great if you could find someone you feel comfortable enough with to share a first time or someone with patience to show you the way--I was lucky that way--aside from instinct the first men I went with were great. I have always gone with older men--even today--I prefer men with experience--I am one of the few gay men (IMO) not interested in young men--I don't want to be a teacher--I don't have the patience :O) This is one of 2 baths in Ft. Lauderdale--and no the men don't look like the ones on the front page of the ad--http://clubhouse2.com/ This bath is where young guys who like older guys usually go while this is where young guys go looking for other young guys http://www.the-clubs.com/page.cfm?location=ftlauderdale There is so much to tell you about--what to look for--recognizing signs--to understand that most guys are afraid of rejection and won't make the first move if/when they see someone they like--many years ago I adopted the idea "Your lose"when/if someone rejected me.
Reese, I could go on for hours BUT I came out in NYC where even back in the 40s and 50s sex was everywhere--luckily I had good mentors--even when I moved to Miami Beach in 1956 I met Joe and Albyn who at that time had been together 26 years and 'adopted' me as their 'son' along with a guy named Perry and gave us an education in Gay life--all I can suggest is keep on talking to gay people, ask questions--there are as many different gay guys as there are different guys--like anything else it is live and learn--be careful but don't be afraid to put yourself out there--take chances--and don't do anything you don't want to do!!!

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