Jump to content
Brave-Heart

CONCEITED? EGOTISTICAL? ME? YES! YES! AND YES! - Your WRITES

Recommended Posts

Posted

I spent this past week reading 302 letters telling me how great, wonderful and loving a person I am (was? LOL)--okay, okay so there were 24 that didn't think so (but that after whatever we had was over!) I enjoyed the letters and started wondering whatever happened to those people--the majority--I haven't heard from or seen? Should I try to contact them? I did make the attempt regarding one only to find out that Frank had died 5 years ago. I am having second thoughts now. Reading the letters reminded me of this that I had written a few years ago and it is still mostly true.

******************************************************************

"My world revolves around me but THE world doesn't. "

I found this quote and instantly realized that it is true for all people. Whether we admit it or not we all do what WE want to do whether it is good for us or not. Some people choose to be martyrs while others choose to be victims and some constantly switch roles.

Anyone who reads my blogs know that I talk about myself and my life a lot! Most will have a picture or two of me! Yes my blogs are about me, me and me! In the past month a blogger threatened me physically, another said "I was a know it all!" and a friend that I had the attitude that I was always right. I know it is hard to believe but, yes, there are people who don't like me--so what?

On February 29, 2016, I will be 80 or--counting my Leap Year birthdays--20. For some reason, and I wasn't taught it as a child, I have had a positive attitude which carried me through hard times and I have had them--being one night away from homelessness, losing the love of my life, declaring bankruptcy TWICE!, walking away from $1 million +, being arrested for being gay and more. I have also had many highs in my life and have learned a lot. I can look you in the eye and say I am a happy man, satisfied with my life and have very few regrets but even those I wouldn't change because I wouldn't be where I am.

How did I get where I am? A lot of luck? Yes! Hard work? Not too much. Being at the right place at the right time? Three times. Being impulsive? Definitely and not worrying about the consequences. Most of all it has been my caring for, and about, others--and that is something I learned to do on my own.

I was brought up on the principles of: "Promises are made to be broken,", "We are going to the poorhouse" (both from my mother), "F**K them before they F**K you," and "Someday all this will be yours. Why do you think I work so hard?" (from my father.) It took going through food and booze addictions, smoking 3 packs a day, a sex addiction that had me having more sexual encounters than Wilt Chamberlain and 6 others combined and then therapy.

The one thing that has been consistent in my life are my friendships which included my 4 exes. Obviously, because they are exes, I am not good in partner/lover/spouse/longtime companion or whatever they are called today but I am a great friend. The most friends I had at one time were 6 and that's not easy because being a true friend is not easy.

I am wise enough, brave enough and open enough to say I won't compromise-- none of this "If you really loved me you would..." nor am I willing to change for anyone. I like who I am. I accept people for who they are--though I am not above a suggestion now and then--and I do give advice---good advice, from experience. I have no expectations of/from anyone and don't want them to have them of/from me. I will trust anyone until they prove me wrong. The only thing I can't/won't accept from anyone is their lying to me.







Share this post


Link to post
Posted

martin you say your wise, and all your friends your made you had them, sounds as if all the posts have the same thread, your alone, thats your life.
As for the title well i agree, but that dont mean you can change, and you tell a lot of porky's all the time.


Share this post


Link to post
Posted

Since you blocked me why are you still reading and commenting on my posts?

And what the hell does 'you tell a lot of porky's all the time' mean? IF that is suppose to mean 'lies' please back it up with facts.

Yes I live alone--that was my choice back in the mid 80s but I am not alone not am I so negative like you are--my friends would lay their life down on the line for me as I would for them.

You seem to be a very sad person who just likes to strike out at people-- hopes it brings you something--the longer you play the 'Poor Little Game" the longer you will have no one as seems to be the case--stop wasting your hate on me because it only makes me laugh.


Share this post


Link to post
Posted

your the fool, yes i blocked you, and despite that all your posts still keep coming into my email, even though i delete them.
As for hate you martin, i dont, just think your a nobody, a nothing,you dont matter at all, not even if you were the last person on this planet.


Share this post


Link to post
Posted

So why do you read me and comment on my posts if I don't matter at all?

And if you are going to accuse me of anything please back it up or shut up--actually just shut up! LOL

You are a very foolish sad person who is mad at the world for some silly reason--get over it--and, if you can, get over me because write and comment all you want I will not respond to your attacks and childishness again.


Share this post


Link to post
Posted

your going to stop stalking me good, you never had a chance anyway


Share this post


Link to post
David_Cloud
Posted

Glad to see you hanging in there, Martin.


Share this post


Link to post
Posted

Why not David? I am having a ball--I just wish most people would have it as good as I do! :O)


Share this post


Link to post
Posted

OK enough already @ Aileen need I remind you there is to be no personal attacks on anyone in my groups.
What are you so angry about?
I don't have much power on this site but I can ban people from the groups I run if they are fighting so quit it please.


Share this post


Link to post

×