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Finding a boyfriend when not ready to come out - Gay Guys! <3

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Austin_Hicks
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i am trying to find one and not come out yet


Dennis_Mix
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Not every on here has come like I did so don't let it bother you.

Alfawolf


Mark_Card
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you will come out when you are ready. Just don't let someone make you if you aren't ready.


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Hey Austin, you can have a bf before you come out, lots of guys have done that, me included. Are you looking for a real life bf (like from your area) or an online one?


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same issue with me. and it does seem to make it harder to find a bf in my opinion but i'm positive you will find a bf Austin!


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I've been on here and various sites and there's a lot of timewasters and guys who just don't bother to message back, so it's hard to find a bf let alone come out. I don't think you need to be out before you have a bf


WillEl
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It is not because you are not out or whatsoever, there is only one reason they never bother to message back: YOU ARE NOT HOT ENOUGH FOR THEM!


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that sure does seem to be the case.


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I agree with Will, online I've never been hot enough for guys, but in real life, I've never had any trouble at all. Sometimes don't understand guys online, like what is the problem? How can it be such a problem online but not for the real world? Do people on sites like this get too confused about what is real?


Tommy_Storey
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Well then.
I am not out but i have a B F .............


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Austin i'm in the boat, i'd love to have a regular boyfriend and i have not come completely out either. So i've found a few places where i can go and be openly gay with other gay men. So just have patience and it will happen, good luck.


Thatkideddy
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Just find a guy u interested in. U dont have to b out to everyone. As long ir out with him its ok. Yah could be happy together without anyone knowing it. Good luck



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