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so once in a blue moon...i get a guy who is interested in getting to know me better...with the intention of possibly being more than a friend...and well aside from the fact that i'm not looking for anyone special at the moment...i can't really see myself going out with someone i've met on this site...one guy wrote to me that he understands but that i should realize that behind this internet person there's an actual person made of flesh and blood...he's not just some internet identity...and i do get that...but in all honesty...even if there was a hot guy on here and i were to verify that he was the real deal...i still wouldn't be interested in him...and i'm sure i've made it clear that i'm very well rooted to pasadena here in cali...so i wouldn't move...but i also wouldn't make someone move out here just to meet me and be with me...if it so happens to be in their plan...then so be it...but i don't wanna be anyone's reason for coming to live here...i'm not all that super special...anywho...back to the topic...so i've gone out with a couple of guys from the internet and well they were a bit older than their pics...and well as i've mentioned i'm not interested in older men...did that have something to do with it???...nope...i pretty much had that in my mind...but decided to give myself the benefit of the doubt...and realized that if i don't like something...chances are...i never will...so i'm not blind to the fact that all of you guys are real people...some of you are even great friends and i wouldn't mind meeting you in person so long as we were to stay friends and nothing more...and well if i'm to meet mr. right...well i'll find him crossing paths with me sometime...it may sound like i'm shooting down a great possibility but i'm sure that whoever i'm meant to be with will come to me..one day...and i'll find him walking by...not on the computer...don't get me wrong...i'm not saying online relationships are wrong...just not my thing...


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Timothy_Brown
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Jony,

I sort of feel the same way, although I did have a short relationship with someone I met on here. We are no longer on speaking terms. I then saw an old sex partner after about 24 years and we became a couple. That is over as well because I had sex with 2 guys after he broke up with me and then we had sex after I was treated for an STI. I did not tell him because I thought I did not have anything and had waited 4 days. I didn't have anything but he was very angry because I didn't tell him. He found a bandaid on my ass and I told him. He said that I am selfish for withholding information from him. I agree this was a very selfish thing of me to do. However, I think that we all make mistakes, but he said that he never wants to hear from me again. This was on Saturday. I'm just going to leave him alone and then see what happens...


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Yes Jony I know what you mean, I love flirting and having fun here, there is one guy here too that I thought we were great friends, and I sorta moved to the next level sort of thing, it all went wrong, don't know why, but now I feel I have lost a bloody good friend as well, so yes I got some good friends here and we all love having a flirt now and again, but I think that's all it could be here, but there again I never say never, so you never know what is around the corner. Mr right may one day pop up for a chat .......


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very true Ailean,


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and guys here is a laugh, 4guys, and 3 girls all like my legs, thats a lot of nice comments. thanks all


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Elvia_Beck
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I'm going to agree with you on this web dating notion, Jony. Most people now hide behind technology. They can be anything on line, they can wow you with words and mental images. Meeting in person has always been the best way. The wide web has lead to many disappointments. I myself want to at least hear a voice and I do like to meet people. But, I want to get to know someone well before any intimacy or " forever" stuff. By the way, communication by text is the cowards way out.


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Elvia_Beck
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Thank you Ailean, mechanical relationships are not the best. Humor and sensiblity! A must in any partnership. As for the legs, I cropped a bit off so breasts wouldn't show. Lol...you how we live in the world of the offended. I have very classy nudes of myself. Not into porn pics! I see bodies as a work of art. They should be admired and respected not gaulked at. My children think I'm nuts! Lol


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Elvia_Beck
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I have 4 grown and none married yet. The girls have had good photography done also. My daughter took mine. The boys are good about it too


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i mean...i once went to this chatroom where guys were hooking up for sex...although i was pretty much the only one looking to just meet someone new...so i met ex-bf's roomate and he asked for my myspace...and he said i was too young for him...so he told my ex that he should try going out with me...(at the time he was having issues with his bf and was splitting up)...so he said yea why not???...next thing you know we meet up...talk and really hit it off...and went out for a month...he ended up leaving me for his ex-bf...and well it just wasn't meant to be...he was a nice guy...so i decided to stay friends...we still keep in touch once in a while...but well point being...is that i think i can find more friends on here rather than a boyfriend who will eventually turn out to be my husband someday...


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Garry_Francis
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See I have met a few guys here, and some have gone on to very interesting partners, some yes just good friends so really I take it as it comes


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Elvia_Beck
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Good luck to all. May you all find the love of your dreams web or no web


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