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Last night - and I admit that I was not in the best of moods - a gays.com member insisted on chatting with me even though I said I was busy. He then later said we should chat on Yahoo IM and I connected and added him just to be polite. First thing that went wrong was that he started giving me commands. He TOLD me to show him my picture. I said, "If you want to see my picture look at my profile." Then he TELLS me to turn on my webcam and I replied, once again, that I was busy. After that he hits me with the old, "So, what are you looking for?" line and I responded, "Did you READ my profile? I'm with someone." Then I disconnected.

Did I overreact or was the guy being a jerk?


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Pendragonworld
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No It states clearly on your profile that you are in a relationship, he should have respected that!! I had something similar on another site years ago and got a load of abuse and accused of leading this person on, it put me off gay social sites. Some people can be really rude!!


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He was just being who he is and you were taking care of yourself. I do not see any over-reaction. I like what you did. Most of the time when people post stuff on my Facebook wall, I just delete it. We can have our own call about these things. Boldness is cool!


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Tach_Chew_We
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no i dont think you over reacted i do the same i just tell tham if you cant chat with me here than dont bother chating with me cuz what ever you say on there you can say here


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No, Tony. "So, what are you looking for?" is the oldest line in the book, and my reply always is, "Nothing, I haven't lost anything." :-)


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David_Dubber
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Love that one Michael!!!! As for Tony, no you definitely did not go too far. Some people will not take 'no' for an awswer whatever the question is about.


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Thanks for the support everyone!


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yeah ppl can become desparate yew know?


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JJ_NN
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you are not a jerk of course !!!

he was..........

JJ


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Posted

no u didnt go to far Tony,in fact u were quite patient,i would hav told him wat to do sooner well done


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Tommy_Storey
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Yes,Tony,I infact,agree with every one
else,==== You did not over re-act,or go too far,=====..
xxxx


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Michelle_Peters_39821
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You are in a relationship. I would have cut the "donkey" off then blocked him. A glacier probably wouldn't have cooled him off.


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Joel_Tackett
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Absolutely no, you didn't over-react. You did the right thing. Some people just can't take no for an answer.


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