Johny_Smith Posted March 27, 2012 okay guys lets hear how you came out to you friends and family.... and if you haven't how do you think you'll tell them?
Ailean_Ross Posted March 27, 2012 johny could you please post this discussion in the rainbow lounge on the gays page, so all could join in the discussion thats all on this site, you will find the group in lifestyle "rainbow lounge" just join the new group and post this up. many thanks.
Homer_Bozarth Posted March 27, 2012 i was never in the closet. every one new i was out of the closet even my parents when i was very young
gstanescu84 Posted March 28, 2012 I bet they did, Homer. hehehe. My coming out wasnt a story dats worth telling a story. I knew i was gay since i was young. My sister knew all along. But my rleatives and family never did. I found meself a boyfriend who helped me come out. But came at a price: Lost the boyfriend. He broke up with me, cuase he cudnt handle the fmaily. THE family got involed iheavily. Depression etc., et,.c kicked in. Being gay has changed my life to a more postive effect. Im so happy that my family now know, but instead of shoving gay down there necks, I have decided to live my gay lifestyle in USA. Of which i cannot wait to move.
Leon_Nguyen Posted March 28, 2012 Nothing much for me to tell... My ex "accidently" let it slipped and from that time I got home, Dad and lil bro stop talking to me. I'm always grateful to my mom anyway since she supports and love'n me... but seem a lil bit too concerned 'bout my sex life since then lol my friends were acting same way, some stayed, some left ...most of them r straight so I did understand and no hard feel'n
Michael_Wolfe Posted March 28, 2012 I'm like Homer I know i was always gay and didn't have to worry about coming out....
Tommy_Storey Posted March 28, 2012 I think that i could be the Odd one out here ?? lol I am NOT out as such,but i am Out to my youngest son,who is also Gay. But to the out side,World,i am as Straight as you can come. The reason why i have not Come out i thinkme is,that i don`t think that it is any ones buissness what my Sexuality is. But on the Other hand, if any one did ever asked if i am gay or not,then i would be Straight with them a say, YES,I am Gay,and i am proud to be also. lol
Homer_Bozarth Posted March 28, 2012 tomy, send me your son lol, i promise you i will take good care of him lol
Tommy_Storey Posted March 28, 2012 Ha,ha,ha, Yes Homer,i know that you would take good care of him. LOL. Tommy,xx
Michael_Wolfe Posted March 28, 2012 Tommy I think you need to send him my way....or at leaast ask him to join the site and the group...
Ailean_Ross Posted March 28, 2012 well homer you have the son , and i will have the dad, with his viagra, i like a guy with some experiance, its too much hard work having a virgin. lol
Ailean_Ross Posted March 28, 2012 so what number would that make, or do you collect notches to keep count
Tommy_Storey Posted March 28, 2012 Now,now,Guy`s,no promises,but i will see what i can do. Ha,ha,ha. LOL.
Timothy_Brown Posted March 28, 2012 My coming out was pretty dramatic. I had been having anonymous sex from/in public restrooms for a long time with some older, some my age. One evening I met uo with a guy about my age and we went to a dept store restroom. We got caught by store security, were taken to the sec office. The sec guy called the other guys mother, telling her that her son had been involved in fellatio. I truthfully said that my mother was not home. I had to get this off my chest so I went to my good friend, Elaine's place and told her what had happened, lying to her saying that it was my first time. I had to tell my mother so I said that I had been in a restroom and a guy was jacking off at the urinal next to me. I became aroused and went back another day to check it out. That was the day on which I was caught. My mother suggested counseling so I went to be counseled. I had to go see a juvenile judge. I told her the same story. Then in Summer, my mother and I took a trip to Cancun, Mexico. I met a gay couple there and we made it clear to each other that we wanted to have sex. We did. My mother asked me if they were gay. I said yes and then she asked if I were. I said that I didn't want to talk about it, which was actually a yes. I finally came out to her a few months later by writing her a letter. I never knew my father, in case you are wondering. My mother is a conservative Christian and she thought this was just a phase. Years later, she finally accepted my sexuality...
Michael_Wolfe Posted March 28, 2012 Hay Tommy if you send him my way he can have 2 times the fun...and I will teach him all about life over here....
Ailean_Ross Posted March 28, 2012 i am surprised that richard i has not commented yet, he is usually here flirting, and is quiet, and tim you were lucky, it could so easy went the other way, but at some time in life we all face that problem with society and family.
Keith_Imeson Posted March 31, 2012 i,m out to some and not to others i,ve never been with a girl but my straight friends don,t seem to care and i don,t mix the two worlds of friends together but that just me
Andrew_W._Matheson_43902 Posted April 9, 2012 Sun., April 8th, 12, 20:30 Hrs. M.D.T. Hi Group., I Came Out in My Middle 20s. I Told My Older Sister as We Were Close. Later Came Out to My Older Brother, Never Came Out to My Parents. They Told Them. Never Came Out to Relatives or Other Members of My Family but I Suspect They Know Somehow. Since I Live Away From Everyone Else I'm More Open in the Region I Live in - Calgary but I Keep My Gaydar on 24/7 to Protect Myself Just the Same. Tnx., Operater.
