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Xavier_Stadtfeld
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My sister is obsessed with men who dress as women. i never understood it personally. how prevolent is crossdressing, and is it really a common turn-on? i dont get it.


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Homer_Bozarth
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it is not a turn on for me but for some guys it is a major turn on.


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Richard_Edwards
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There are both gays and straights that cross dress.


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I am atracted not to a persins body bit peraonality. And when i see someone crosdressing its a huge turn on, because their confedince and bravery..


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Xavier_Stadtfeld
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im really indifferent about it. i've even done it many times, i just never got into it... i have more straight guy friends who are into crossdressing. just didnt know what people really thought of it.


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Rod_Bell
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Cross dressing is probably more open then any time in Western civilization. For some people, it can be a real turn on. I have done it for fun and had a good time. I never got into performing. On ebay there are clothes, jewelry and music for drag queens.


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It doesnt appeal to me I like them seperate but that might b a bi thing


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David_Dubber
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Definitely a massive turn off for me


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Tommy_Storey
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With me,i can take it or leave it,i think it all depend`s in what mood i am in at the
time. Don`t misunderstand me, i don`t cross dress,but some times i dont mind
seeing a guy Cross dressed. I think that it add`s a bit of Spice to thing`s
some time`s. Yes,it may be, a BI - thing ( ? ) I just don`t know ??????? lol.


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it dont matter if it is a bi thing, or a gay thing, or anything else, it can be a lot of fun, and tommy you can get thigh or knee high boots on ebay up to size 13, and thats for women.
As for clothes, just add or subtract 20 inches from your waistline to find the size corresponding in the womens clothing dept, and the same goes for undies etc.
Breast size for you guys is differcult as some of you dont have boobs, but just measure across your chest, and go online to find out you cup size.
Make-up tips can be found on u-tube, and also tips for hairstyles.
Finally guys, please remember to shave your hand and arms and legs, and armpits, to at least be like a woman.
As for tips on dealing with that snake, well find out for yourselves on that one.
And finally guys, if your going to go out dressed as a woman, get a pic so we can all see.


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Xavier_Stadtfeld
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sounds fun.


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well on here, on the transgender group, go and ask some of the girls about make-up, and also confidence tips, so that you dont blow it when you go on the street, and everyone is talking about you behind your back, one can sense the whispers.
as well as the looks.


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well guys , i am going to expand some advice to you, but still talk to the others on the transgender site.
At first get used to wearing womens clothes at home , shave your legs, and wear stockings, hold-ups, and when buying female clothing you will get some looks, get used to it, its one of these things. as for stockings double-sided sticky tape will help, but if you can get used to hold-ups, you wont need a chastity belt.
Get used to make-up, put it on slowly and wear it in normal activities, keep the lipstick for later.
wear your womans clothing, ie; stockings undies under unisex or womans denims, most guys dont know the differences, and feel comfortable, if you dont feel ok with it , then stop and reconsider, because being gay is one thing, being a crossdresser is another, and even some gays abuse transgenders, barebacking etc, without condoms.
And now we get to footwear, womans boots with a low heel is best, and remember a womans foot is narrower than a guys, so either get a wide fit or go up one size.
As for casual wear in footwear trainers even in pink is ok,as some guys like pink.
But do take care when going out in public, as some would stab you, so be safe, please, the usa can be a dangerous place, and so can scotland be , but to a lesser degree, and stay amongst your own,dont chase straights at first, and trans people usually have lesbian or trans relationships, as the gays are just as phobic about this subject as are the straights.


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Tommy_Storey
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Allan,
I must thank you,for all the vary interesting info. lol.
Tommy,xxx


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tommy are you now asking for advice on walking in high heels, and wearing womens clothing too, some of the guys will think i am corrupting you on here
but its advice that some on here need to hear,because despite things being better, there is still widespread hate out there for our community worldwide, and the currrent fundelmentalism, and equal-marriage legislation, is making things more open, and even amongst the straights they are taking sides over here.
But i will post some more comments on this subject, it may help someone.


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ok tommy, dont take this as an insult its not meant that way, but first , you have to stop drinking pints, that bangs weight on fast, and one ends up with a beer bell, you would need to lose some weight, and take estrogen tablets, to get your boobs to grow naturally, and some of the other changes is in ones mood, it changes one is calmer, and also your hair grows finer, and slower than a guys.
Now you would need a hairpiece, a wig, a lot go for black, but some go for more natural colours, and guys remember this is just like normal hair, it need to be washed and kept clean, and styled using tongs, just as any normal woman would do.
Another way is extensions, grafted on to your natural hair, and then dyed, and styled, this can be done in any womens salon, and you can even have it permed, if doing this get a manicure as well.
Using false nails and eyelashes is something else one learns, as is nail varnish and mascara, and eye liner.
But no matter how good you are, you will still have to learn what all women learn growing up over a period of time.
I am talking of mannerisms, use of one hands , and voice control, but as i said its walking in high heels thats the bitch.
Most have seen the beyonce walk in destiny's child, that exagerrated catwalk style, well practice it, because when walking a woman uses the ball of her foot and not the heel when walking, also when wearing a dress, and sitting down , keep your legs closed, not like a guy, who lounges showing his manhood of for all to see.
There are lots of other things one needs to pull this off, and remember other guys will look and whistle at you, dont feel embarrased, this is natural, and from a distance is fine, careful here, if they get too close, there hands are like tenticles, go everywhere, even down there, and then, well i am sure you can envision that part, some like it, but some dont.


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Tommy_Storey
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Yes,Allan,i must admit,i do agree with you 100%. lol.

No worries,on the Currupted side of thing`s,as you really can`t currupt the currupted can you ??. Or can you ???. Ha,ha. lol.
Tommy,xxx


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wont stop me trying will it, and the rest will know when you post a pic of you in a long dress all dolled up, looking like a drag queen, and on my fb page is the date for glasgow pride, and party in george square in the centre of glasgow, its on the 14 july guys.and tommy you wearing womans clothing at that event, will be fine as well, me i am going there but wearing denims that day, as there might be some watching to see if i am wearing a mini, and i only do that when i go out alone.not in an event as this is.


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Tommy_Storey
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Ha,ha,ha, yes Alan,.you just might see you,there then,on the 14th then ??.
But on the other hand,you just might not ???, ( Ha,ha,ha,), lol.
Tommy,xx


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mabey mabey not tommy as you have world pride in london the previous month, i take it you are going to that one, you could wear your mini to that, walk the streets with the girls, who knows mabey some guys might want you as an escort, a good part time job for you, paid for having fun?


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Tommy_Storey
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Yes Alan.you could have something there.
So why did`nt i think of that ??. ( Ha,ha ), lol.


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well tommy in the discussion secrets, i have posted a new secret which even if its just us too discussing it should post, and get the guys involved in talking about it, it takes place in our dark past, where we were creatures of the night, and i am sure you will know about that.
And anyway with the right costume and wig etc, you could look sexy, getting the young guys horny, and wanting, no lusting after you.


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Tommy_Storey
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Hi there,Alan,
I have just come away from just reading the last 13 of a 16 page
Discussion.

Like you,Alan,i can remember,our,Dark,Dark,past my self,and i have posted
A comment,on page,16 of the Duscussion, what i have just read through. lol.
Tommy,xx


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