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Gay BDSM and Bondage: a Beginner's Guide


Who hasn’t, at some point, had fantasies about being controlled or controlling someone else? The queer scene is full of opportunities for those into

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The rise of gay sides: looking beyond top and bottom roles

Most of us in the queer community label ourselves as either top, bottom or vers. But what if you don't identify with any of these positions? What if

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What is Felching? Exploring the Meaning of This Kinky Sex Act

If you have a taste for cum, you may already know what felching is. Alex Hopkins explores the definition of this kinky fetish and explores ways for

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Sex in Long-Term Relationships

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Every relationship goes through a dry patch, but sex in long-term relationships can be particularly challenging for gay men. Follow our top tips to rekindle the flame.
 
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Beating Jealousy in Gay Relationships

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Jealousy within a relationship can be a killer. How can you challenge and survive it? We have some rules to follow for beating jealousy in relationships and keeping the big green monster at

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Why You Shouldn’t be Jealous of Gay Serial Monogamy

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You’re perennially single, and your infuriating best friend is always in a relationship. It just seems so unfair. But is the life of a gay serial monogamist perfect? Gays.com looks at the reality

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Sexual Fluidity | From Gay to Bisexual and Beyond

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How rigid are sexual identities? What happens to the men and women who are sexually fluid – and how are they viewed by their friends and the broader LGBT community? Gays.com talks to three

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Gay Dating | How to Break Up with Him

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Breaking up, as the song goes, is so very hard to do – but when you know you’ve exhausted all other options, how do you break up with someone without causing a trail of destruction? Gays.com takes a

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Gay Dating | 11 Hidden First Date Ideas in London

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A successful first date can be the start of a whole new life. But how do you impress him? Gays.com looks at some of London’s lesser-known places to take him on a date. 
 
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Keeping Hard and Keeping Going | Male Enhancement Pills

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Viagra – and its ‘herbal equivalents’ – are essential additions to many gay men’s weekend away bag – but what are the risks involved, asks Alex Hopkins.

For some gay guys, the party

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How to Get a Second Date With Your Dream Man

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Been on a date with your dream guy who then agrees to a second date? Wanna know how to keep him interested? Gays.com shows you how.
 
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8 Playful Ways to Beat Premature Ejaculation

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It’s second only to the ultimate shame of not being able to get it up: your Wilful Weapon of Ass Destruction is so overzealous that he drops his barrage of bombs within moments of invasion. Gays.com

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Our Top Tips for Fun Gay Role Play

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It’s getting rather boring in the bedroom. In fact, it’s got to the point where you’re sitting there in your thermals watching reruns of RuPaul’s Drag Race – or, even worse, Bette Davis movies.

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Nightmare Boyfriends | How to Spot Them

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If he’s rich, cultured and gorgeous, he is probably a psychopath. Is your guy too good to be true? Do you see some behaviour which concerns you? If so perhaps you’ve hooked up with the Patrick

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The pleasures of being a slut

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In the US and countries in Europe, equal marriage rights is something many thought would never happen. But does it force a new form of conformity and respectability on gay men – making those who

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My heart belongs to Daddy

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Is the 'Daddy/Son' relationship a new trend in gay culture - and, if so, what's driving it?
 

 
More and more flirts - when Men talk with boys
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Chemsex vs Sober sex

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Gays.com writer Alex Hopkins speaks to men who became addicted to chemsex. How difficult was it to go back to having sober sex - and how have their lives changed?

When it comes to how

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Navigating Diversity: The Multifaceted Role of Male Love Dolls in the LGBTQ+ Community and Beyond

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In an ever-evolving world where societal norms continue to shift, the integration of male love dolls within the LGBTQ+ community has emerged as a noteworthy phenomenon. These technologically advanced

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The gay love horoscope - Gemini

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Gay Geminis are born between May 21st and June 21st. These fiercely intelligent and freedom-loving guys are symbolised by identical twins. Which gives the sign its duality. Daring and devilish,

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Male Sex Dolls for Gay Men - How do they work?

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Is your man not satisfying your sexual needs? Or boring you to tears? Fear not. Thanks to ultra-modern tech, Sex Dolls for Gay Men are the new hottest and horniest thing. But will your bionic

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How to stay friends with ex boyfriends

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Staying friends with an ex is not easy – though gay men are better at it than straights. But there are still some big challenges involved. Here are seven ways to build a great new relationship with

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Exploring Anal Orgasm - Why Should You Try it Out?

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If you’re considering trying out anal sex for the first time, you probably have a lot of questions in mind. Is it safe? How does it feel like? Will it hurt? Can you have an orgasm from it? We’re here

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Just Too Damn Hot | Problems with Being the Perfect Guy

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The stunningly perfect gay man is envied by legions – but what are the problems of being obscenely good looking? We look at the obsession with beauty from the other side of the looking

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What not to put on your Gay App Profile

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How much thought do you put into writing a profile on online gay dating apps such as our own Gaudi App? Words come quickly but wound easily. Here are eight absolute No-Nos for writing a profile on

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Sex with Trans Men | Confronting Prejudice

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Today, more and more trans people are on gay hook-up apps, which were once cis-male only. But what do you need to know about having sex with a trans man and how do you confront prejudice? We take a

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Gay Romance | How to Tell He's Not the One

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He’s wined you, dined you and 69ed you. You’re totally his. But then things slowly start to change. It’s subtle at first – but there are definite warning signs that he’s no good. How do you recognise

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Rekindling the flame

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All relationships go through tough times, straight or gay. The trick is weathering them and coming out the other end – preferably stronger. Alex Hopkins takes a look at the ways you can avoid that

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Is he really into you?

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There’s something wrong. You can’t quite put your finger on it, but that guy of your dreams has been acting strangely. Is your relationship on the way out? And, if so, how can you be sure? Alex

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